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10/29/2012

South Korean Adventures - Week #1

Annyong haseyo! So, I'm finally here in South Korea visiting my parents with my son, who is almost a year old. :)

I'm going to write this in short bits, since I'm so tired from the trip and everything I've been doing. So, let's begin!



The Flight:

I had never flown before in my life, so traveling twenty hours to the other side of the world was a rather large undertaking with a baby in tow, but we managed to survive. We flew from Augusta to Atlanta, Atlanta to Washington DC, from Washington to the Incheon Airport in Seoul, South Korea.

My son was amazingly well behaved  and cooperative. I got lots of complements about his good behavior. He had his tired, I want to get down moments, but he didn't scream and cry like other babies did at various parts of the trip.

Seoul, South Korea: 

The airport in Seoul was amazingly huge, with more people than I could have ever imagined. Everything was in Korean and English. It took me a while to find my parents, but when I did find them, I came up behind them with my luggage cart to surprise them.

In the parking lot, all of the cars were different. Their trucks are called "bongos", with beds that can lie flat on all sides for easier loading. Planes were taking off and landing everywhere...Incheon Airport was a whirlwind of excitement. But of course, we had a four hour drive ahead of us to Waegwan. 


The Drive: 

It was getting dark as we were getting back to the apartment, but you could still see the outline of the mountains in the distance. We drove over a bridge that was several miles long, going over part of the ocean. The fog was pretty dense, but you could see more when we got closer to the city. The toll gates were quite interesting, as I had never been through one before. 

The rest stops are really strange...they're right off of the "IC" or Interchange (Highway/Interstate). They consist of several stores, eateries, coffee shops as well as a gas station, bathrooms, and a room specifically to nurse your babies! You don't see any Korean formula here. 


The Apartment: 


My mom, dad, sister and brother live in these cute five story apartments near downtown Waegwan. There are two apartments on every floor...and no elevators. That's a lot of steps with a 26lb child on your back! There's a special room in which you took your shoes off when you entered the house. The windows and doors were very different from those in the states. The doors to the balcony/clothes drying/gardening area were almost like a puzzle the way they slid to open. Standing on the roof of the apartment was to die for; the panorama view of the mountains was absolutely breath taking when we went up there in the morning.


Daegu, South Korea:

The next day, we hit the ground running as we headed to the train station to buy tickets for the train, which is about 2000 won or $2.00. While we waited on the train, we went across the street to a cafe called Yogger Presso! This is the home of the world's best cream cheese stuffed pretzel. After consuming this delicious bit of food, we boarded the train and zipped over to Daegu, the second largest city in South Korea. 

The streets were packed with people all dressed in almost a business casual as their street clothes -- no baggy jeans and revealing clothing here! Everywhere you looked you saw several story McDonalds (which delivered), multi-story Starbucks and Dunkin Doughnuts. Even their Dollar Stores were multi-storied with amazing prices on anything you could imagine. We went to a resturaunt called "Italy Italy" in which you could pretty much design your own pizza (shape included...my sister and I had ours made into a heart). 

Even with the jet-lag, my son and I made it through the entire day. At about 6:00pm (5:00am state-side) we crashed for the night. 


Home Plus:


A few days later, after acquiring my base-pass, we traveled back to Daegu via car to visit a store called Home Plus. It's essentially the Korean equivelant of a Target or a Walmart, except it's several stories tall and much larger. You have to pay 100 won (or 10 cent) to get a buggy/cart. This cart also is a pedometer which tracks your steps. 

The escalator was flat, as in it didn't have any steps, but it was magnetized so your cart couldn't move. Escalators were essential in navigating this store, since there was just so much to see, you could get tired from just walking around one floor. 

The inventory included baby ware, groceries, clothes, quilts, music...you name it, they had it. My sister introduced me to a popular fast-food restaurant inside of Home Plus (although you can find it outside as well) called Lotteria. I didn't partake of the fast food itself, but their pop-rocks milk shake is absolutely delicious. My son wanted more and more...the pop-rocks in his mouth fascinated him.
 

Waegwan Market:


Two days later, we visited Waegwan Market. It wasn't an official "market day", but there were certainly lots of vendors lined up to sell various fish, fruit, vegetables, and sweets. You could find various foods, such as dried eel and squid (don't worry...didn't eat or touch!), sticky rice balls with brown sugar and peanuts inside, chicken hearts and kimchi, the nation's staple food item besides kim (seaweed) and bap (rice). 


Post-Sabbath Nose Piercing and Zombie Attack: 


A strange heading, I know, but after the sun went down to end the Sabbath day, my sister and I went to downtown Daegu to get my nose pierced! I've wanted to do that for a long time, especially since nose piercings are spoken of positively in Scripture and looked upon favorably by Yahuah (contrary to popular belief). 

The shop itself was small but well lit and very clean. I was quite impressed by the difference between this small shop and the various piercing places back in the states. The Persian man running the shop directed me to several small diamond-esque studs that he recomended. He gave me a green "diamond" to put in for the piercing and a white one as a back-up.

As I sat down in the chair, I looked up at the man who was donning gloves and opening the nose-ring packet. I asked him what it would feel like. He didn't say anything as he was rubbing the skin cleaning solution onto my nose. 


Then he pushed the nose stud clear through my nose. 

"Kind of like that," he said, smiling, as he secured the stud.

It bled. And hurt. But then it was over and I absolutely adored it! 

Oh. And then there's the zombie attack. As we were heading back to the train station, we were crossing under the street to get to the other side. We rounded the corner and lo and behold...there were fifty to sixty people in full zombie attire, blood, guts and all, staggering and moaning and reaching out of us. I was scared out of my wits for just a moment and then realized.....this is an ACTUAL zombie walk! My sister and I began taking pictures immediately. 


The first week was absolutely amazing, and I'm sure I've left something out, but this about sums it up. Seeing as it's rather late here, I'm going to wrap this post up by saying annyong haseyo and wishing you a great week! Shalom! More to come soon. :D

10/14/2012

I'm Glad I Married Young

Ahh, marriage. The most perfect, sacred, wonderful union between a man and a woman, instituted by Yahuah Himself. 

"For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." - Bereshith (Genesis) 2:24

By today's standards, it is looked upon most favorably when young women finish college, date around, get married, invest in a career and then have maybe two or three children.



What about those of us who decide to get married young and not wait until we're 25-30 to get married? Yeah, we're not really liked very much.

But that's okay, because I'm going to spell out exactly why I feel that it is best for women to marry and have children at a younger age than what the world tells us is acceptable!

1. "You Don't Know What You Want In A Husband So Young!"

Oh, really? I think Scripture makes it pretty clear what we are to look for in a husband. 

"Likewise, urge the young men to be sensible. Show yourself to them an example of good works in all matters. In teaching, so corruptness, seriousness, soundness of speech beyond reproach..." Titos (Titus) 2: 7 - 8

"In the same way, husbands, live understandingly together, giving respect to the wife, as to the weaker vessel..." Kepha Aleph (1 Peter) 3:7

Know what you want from your future husband before you begin dating. Keep your standards high, and you won't be heartbroken over and over again.

2. "You Should Experience Life First."

As a young wife and mother, I truly do feel like I am experiencing life. My life is given to the loving servitude of my family, not to selfish gratification of wasting my time in a government institution to get a degree I'm not even going to use. 

I have practical life experience, such as how to keep a home in order, how to keep my family healthy by providing nutritious meals three times a day, how to soothe a child in a loving manner, and how to be a responsible adult. 

I don't need to go out and party and "get it out of my system" before I "settle down". 

Read Proverbs 31 for an accurate description of how a young woman should behave, especially when it comes to living her life as a homemaker.


3. I Have More Energy For Various Things


Who wants to be 30 or older and only begin having children? Wouldn't you be tired? I'm so glad I have all of this energy to keep up with little ones. I am more muscular, balanced, calm, and flexible than I've ever been in my entire life.

And think about childbirth -- it's for the young! Your bodies are completely developed for childbearing at a young age, so why wait another ten years or so before actually using your body for what it's built for? Birthing was a breeze, and I attribute it to my youth.


4. I Have More Childbearing Years

I feel sorry for those women who have purposefully cut off their childbearing years. Those are some of the greatest years of your life. And the act of giving birth and nursing keeps you young! I thank Yah that I have a lot of time to bring more children into the world, for His glory. 

"Children are an inheritance from Yahuah, and the fruit of the womb is a reward. As arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of one's youth.Blessed is the man who has filled his quiver with them. They are not ashamed when they speak with their enemies in the gates." - Tehillim (Psalms) 127:3 - 5 

5. I'm Not Set In My Ways 

As a younger adult, I am not bound in the way I think things should be. I get to grow with my husband, experience new things with him, and fail or succeed with him. We can communicate more openly. We learn from each other. It is truly a blessing. 


I don't feel like young women need to wait forever to get married and have children. Trust Yahuah. Trust your husband. Trust yourself, as a capable woman. The rest will fall into place. Other people have told me that when I get older, I'll regret having married young, but I don't see how anyone could do it any other way. :)

10/05/2012

Sukkot: It's In Tents!

This week, my family and I are observing Sukkot, the last fall feast of the year. It's an eight day festival in which we dwell in tents and rejoice. It's a rememberance of the time the children of Yisre'al wandered in the desert as well as a foreshadowing of  a future time in which the Messiah will tabernacle with men upon His return.

Because of tight budgets for all parties, this year, instead of going off to a camp site to observe this wonderful feast, we are camping in the pasture adjacent to my husband's family's home.



On 1st Day (Sunday), it rained while the men were setting up the tents and us women-folk scurried around (myself with my son on my back) situating tables, chairs, beds and whatnot. Mattresses were scrubbed down, various food boxes hauled and bed-frames put together.

All was well, even if we were a bit soggy.

And then there were the ants.

At this moment, I probably have about twelve ant bites in various places all over my feet. Unknowingly, we situated the food tent right over various small ant piles. So, while standing around chatting, looking at the progress we made, we all got bit.

Thankfully, my husband is a professional bug-killer and within a day, all of the bugs were gone. But the bites weren't, which made for a very uncomfortable night.

The Sabbath has just started as I am typing this now. It's been a full week with two days and one night left of this wonderful feast.

Erev Shabbat (the day before Shabbat, "Friday"), we spent the entire day preparing. Four loaves of Challah, a beautiful Menorah-lit feast outside under the camoflauge, and a trip (mid-day) to the local thrift store. During the Sabbath meal, my three sister-in-laws, my mother-in-law and I sang the "Sabbath Song" by Zemer Levav. It was truly beautiful.

We enjoyed making kosher-smores over a roaring fire and gathered for coffee and conversation in the food tent every morning.

I'm so happy to have been able to share this special time with my family and my son. :)

For now, here are some additional pictures of our camp (more to come):


Our Food Tent/Coffee Station